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Thomas asks…

Should I tell her I love her?

Ok if yo uhave read my prevous questions u will no i that i think im in love with a girl named Crystal (not her real name)…and well she says shes talking to another guy…and she loves to death as afriend that is…and she doesn’t like me like that she has not said that to my face but to my friends…and that where such good friends that she doesn’t want to ruin are friendship…should I tell her I love her and can’t stand to see her get her by all these guys..and i can’t stop thinking about her…shes always on my mind…how do i tell her if i need to tell her…should i tell her in person which most likely wont be till Friday or should I tell her over the phone to night…i mean idk if i am in love or not yet but i think i am…
but see..im going crazy as it is…i have ulcers i stress so much….and i think if i tell her then well maybe itll releve some…and thats the thing i am scared to tell her in person

LoveKnots answers:

I wouldn’t tell her you love her. If you’re not sure then you shouldn’t say it anyway.
AND on top of that… YOU telling her you love her will NOT change her feelings about you. That’s a fact. It will probably make things unbearably uncomfortable and awkward for you and her. For the life of me I never know why we as men think that if we tell a woman how we feel… Especially one that isn’t necessarily into us… She’ll wake up and magically fall in love. I don’t get it. It seems to make things worse every time. She already knows how you feel. If this girl has expressed that she doesn’t see you in a romantic way and you respond by telling her you love her… This won’t make things better. Personally, I’d lay low. Back off. If all she wants is a friendship… (women can be friends with men effortlessly) and you want a relationship, there’s two things u can do. Leave her alone and make yourself less a part of her life. Don’t be mean or a jerk or ignore her… Just quietly (yet happily) live your life on the fringe of her life. Don’t flirt, don’t play, don’t give her any of that. She’ll notice. And if she calls u on it simply tell her that your feelings for her require you to protect yourself and while you are still friends, you can’t always be spending all your time and attention on her. This will make you different from all the other guys she’s being hit on. This takes patience and inner toughness. You have to be willing to carry it out completely. OR second option… Remain her close friend and live in turmoil and have your guts tied in knots all the time.
But i repeat, spilling your guts and telling her you love her now will not bring you any closer to what you really want.

Mandy asks…

I can’t understand this poem!!What is it trying to say or can you explain the poem!!!?

Love comes hungry to anyone’s hand.
I found the newborn sparrow next to
the tumbled nest on the grass. Bravely

opening its beak. Cats circled, squirrels.
I tried to set the nest right but the wild
birds had fled. The knot of pin feathers

sat in my hand and spoke. Just because
I’ve raised it by touch, doesn’t mean it
follows. All day it pecks at the tin image of

a faceless bird. It refuses to fly,
though I’ve opened the door. What
sends us to each other? He and I

had a blue landscape, a village street,
some poems, bread on a plate. Love
was a camera in a doorway, love was

a script, a tin bird. Love was faceless,
even when we’d memorized each other’s
lines. Love was hungry, love was faceless,

the sparrow sings, famished, in my hand.

Please someone explain what this poem is trying to say or saying!!!

LoveKnots answers:

Love comes hungry to anyone’s hand.
I found the newborn sparrow next to
the tumbled nest on the grass.
~Love is a craving to everyone, and a newborn to love is going to be hurt.~

Bravely
opening its beak. Cats circled, squirrels.
I tried to set the nest right but the wild
birds had fled.
~The poem is saying how you need to be brave when you first fall in love and you need to be open to hurt. The cat in the poem is telling of a problem in the relationship. The poem then describes a dysfunctional relationship that you are trying to fix, but the problem (cat) is just too much and the lover has left you.~

The knot of pin feathers
sat in my hand and spoke. Just because
I’ve raised it by touch, does not mean it
follows.
~You are hurt by love. Just because you have loved and nurtured this first lover of yours does not mean the lover will always be there.~

All day it pecks at the tin image of
a faceless bird. It refuses to fly,
though I’ve opened the door. What
sends us to each other?
~The newborn lover wants to remember the relationship as it was but it is forgetful. You remember your first love and do not want to meet new people yet even though the world is open for you. “What sends us to each other?” means that you have found someone new.~

He and I
had a blue landscape, a village street,
some poems, bread on a plate.
~You shared a home, time, and possessions, or something similar to this.~

Love
was a camera in a doorway, love was
a script, a tin bird. Love was faceless,
even when we’d memorized each other’s
lines. Love was hungry, love was faceless,
the sparrow sings, famished, in my hand.

~Love is memories, love is played out (I don’t understand the tin bird). Love has a forgetful face, even if you have memorized someone’s. Love is a craving, forgetful. The sparrow represents someone who is tired and hungry, probably someone who was hurt by love. The person hurt by love is calling out for love in your hand.~

Betty asks…

Why do I still love him?!?

Okay, a year ago I met this guy. We eventually turned into very good friends and we’d talk/text whenever possible.
I noticed that even two weeks after meeting, I had feelings for him. He had a girlfriend anyway, so it’s not like I was going to get between them, he was always talking about how great she was…
Anyway, we got really close and we started doing everything together.
I soon realized that I had so much more than feelings for him, I knew I was in love but he wouldn’t feel the same way. So I disnt tell him for t least two months and that just deepened the feeling.
Long story short, he told me he had loved me since we met, and I told him the same..
After that we didn’t talk for about a month, and when we did he was hostile towards me… So I was mean back.
I haven’t spoken to him in at least six and a half months now, but it still feels like I’m in love all over again. My heart knots when I think of him, tears come to my eyes remembering how hard on me he turned and butterflies reach my stomach when someone says his name…
I know I’m still in Love!
Why?? I’ve even got a new boyfriend now who I like, but I’m still in love with him. And at the same time I do want to love him and I DON’T want to love him.
:’( Help! I still want my Brandy back..
How can I not be in love anymore?!

LoveKnots answers:

This just shows a complete lack of maturity. How about being mentally strong, how about some self control. Crushes come and go. And this guy treated you like crap. What exactly is attractive about him? Stop dwelling on him and move on. Get those emotions under control. Stop allowing them to lead you around. Focus on your new love and be happy

Joseph asks…

Young and in love. Are we ready?

Ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, i can honestly say ive loved no other the same as i love him. No other guy comes close to what he means to me. The beautiful thing about it all is i know for a fact he loves me just as much. I’m 18 he is 20 & marriage has come to mind. He wants to marry soon, we have even considered getting married through court in secret. Our love is pure and well alive. I fear that if we marry soon it will be a great disappointment to our families. i have a full time job and he goes to school. Are we just to young?

LoveKnots answers:

Personally, (i don’t know what it’s like in your culture) i think you’re too young to marry. You have a lot ahead of you and you should just enjoy being young before you make these big decisions. I would stay together for a couple more years, and if you’re still going strong, then definately tie the knot!

Carol asks…

Am I in love? :D xxx?

What does it mean? please answer.?
this girl that used to go to my course I have taken a likin to. I cant stop thinking about her. I always check to see if shes online on facebook. And I always check her facebook page out. I always compare her to other girls and no other girl is better than her She is nice,smiles alot and pretty. when I heard she was gone to college last year after the course I was sad. I mention her to all my friends. I asked her did she get a letter telling her where and when the grad for our course was she said not yet so I told her where it was. Do u think that she knew I liked her cus I said that. When we met at the grad she was smiling, very friendly and she sat down besid me.nearly the whole time. When we were.in the.photo.she put her hand on my back. Like she was flirting.or.prob being.nice. My friend.asked her how long.she was dating.her boyf. She said about.2 years he said youll soon be tying.the.knot. She said ah I dont know about that now. I was right beside.her.when she said it. we.met.in a.nightclub.few.months later. She said hi and gave me a hug. Someother time I seen her in the same night club I was drunk. She was.outside staring at.me and.smiling. Shes workin in a pub for the summer and im going to that exact pub for.my cusins christening.
She has a boyfriend though and has been.dating.him.for the.past two years. I wanna marry her and have kids with her. I.never had a gf. People say ive no.confidence :(

Do u like my story?

Appreciate all your answers

Thanks alot

LoveKnots answers:

You’ve got a crush.. You won’t know if you love her until you and her acc talk about it or get together. Sorry to be a killjoy but it might just be friendly or bestfriend stuff. But those feelings can be more.. You just have to try!

Robert asks…

Does anyone know what ASSONANCE means?

I have a english presentation to do on a literary term. Mines assonance. I need a good definition (that a 5th grader could understand) and 2 made up examples. I also need 2 “print” examples. This means an example of a famous person or poet using this literary term. It could be anything, from Star Wars, the Bible, Robert Frost, or Martin Luther King Jr. could of said it. Doesn’t matter, I just need 2 quotes.

Thanks for the help. I just can’t find any good ones and I’m kind of lost on what “assonance” is.

I’ll give my vote to best answer!

LoveKnots answers:

Assonance — Identity or similarity in sound between internal vowels in neighboring words.

Examples:

Those images that yet
Fresh images beget,
That dolphin-torn, that gong-tormented sea.”
(W.B. Yeats, “Byzantium”)

•”The spider skins lie on their sides, translucent and ragged, their legs drying in knots.”
(Annie Dillard, Holy the Firm)

•”It beats as it sweeps as it cleans.”
(Slogan for Hoover vacuum cleaners)

•”I must confess that in my quest I felt depressed and restless.”
(Thin Lizzy, “With Love”)

•”Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage, against the dying of the light.”
(Dylan Thomas, “Do not go gentle into that good night”)

I’m not making up any sentences for you. That part is up to you.

Nancy asks…

I don’t know if I love him?

There is this guy who I have worked with for the past two years and we just started talking talking now due to a business trip we had to go on together. We got along so well. We were with each other basically twenty four seven and grew super close. We shared a lot of personal details about us and I fell harder and harder for him.

When I think about him now I get knots in my stomach it is really hard to breathe. I get super tense and I feel really weird. I am 19 by the way. At age 17 a guy I was with attempted to rape me and since then I have been with a few guys for a total of three days and I have not been able to trust any guys and I have had no desire to be with any guys. Now this. I have no idea what this feeling is. Am I in love with this guy? He is everything I ever wanted in a guy, truly. We spent so much time together talking and not about work and we connected on a deeper level.

So I guess I am just asking do you think I am in love with him? He is moving later this year and I actually have a panic attack thinking about him leaving. Do I want him, or just someone like him? I have not told him that I feel this way or that I am questioning this, I am scared to ruin this friendship. He is the first guy that I actually trust and feel safe with. What do you think?

I love the generals about him, faith, gentleman, polite, honest, etc. But I also fell hard for the personal details he shared, his childhood, stories of him and his siblings, his dad, all those stories made me fall for him too. So I am not sure if I am in love with the idea of a guy like him or him. He is not my type physically and I never thought I would fall for him, but when I think of him now and see him, I don’t see his outside appearance, if that make sense.

Feel free to ask questions I will add details!

How should I give him a chance? I don’t know if he likes me at all in that way. And how can I go about it so that I do not ruin this awesome friendship we have going now? That is something I do not want to lose. It is hard for me to trust people and I trust him.

LoveKnots answers:

I believe if you don’t want to see him go you have to tell him. I had to tell The girl of my dreams The girl that I still love! That ” I love you ” because I knew I couldn’t live with myself if I had not. Unfortunately for me she didn’t feel the same but I still respect her and I will always love her anyways I’m still up now because my cat morris has the sniffles so today I made him his favorite dish hot dogs and chilli with an aspirin
to make him feel better but since he gone to sleep the room smell like a gas chamber if you know what I mean uhgh. Here’s a song to listen to ” Arms ” by natalienatnat54 Goodluck and Goodnight. PS: Morris is doing OK he is back to jumping and making biscuites!

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