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Mark asks…

Im in love with my boyfriend and my best guy friend…?

I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and three months now. Things are great and I really can’t complain. The thing is this, I have always had feelings for my best guy friend. Even though I love my boyfriend very much, those feelings for my friend have never left; they have always been in the back of my head. I thought the feelings were only one sided until I found out recently that my guy friend loves me too. We sat for awhile and talked about our options. He has a girlfriend, but he said he would break up with her if it meant being with me. I wasn’t planning on telling my friend about my feelings until right before we would leave for college. I love my boyfriend very much, but I am pretty positive I don’t want a boyfriend while I am in college. What should I do? I feel so torn. I feel like I am emotionally cheating on my boyfriend. Im just so confused. They are both completely different people and I love them both. I would really appreciate some insight if you have any :)
Im sure he thinks something is up because he keeps bring this friend up. It breaks my heart to even think about breaking his (my boyfriend).

LoveKnots answers:

Sounds like your in a knot! And i’m sry that u are… I dont want to say anything to dum, because its your life, and u make your own decisions in it! So i would just say… Who do u like more, and what do u want to do? Cause if you really want to be with your best friends thats a guy, then do it, but if you dont want to leave your other boy friend, then don’t. I’m not trying to make any of your choices here, cause its what u want to do and what ever would make u the happiest! I dont want to be a theripist either, but i just want to tell u what i would do, or ask myself. So im just saying, that this is your question to answer and i cant really tell which way to go! Its your cross road… U walk the path u want to take, not the one u dont. Hope i helped! And i hope u end up happy! :D

Mandy asks…

To anyone in a relationship and in love?

Do you find others attractive still?

I’m in a really great relationship, my boyfriend loves me so much and he’s such a nice guy, I KNOW he won’t cheat,yet I can’t stop thinking about it,I feel so sad when I think about what he did before going out with me (which really wasn’t much) and I know it’s not something I should think about,but I can’t stop myself. My stomach feels knotted,it hurts me so much but I can never believe him when he says he doesn’t find ”sexy pictures” remotely attractive,or any other girls…I know this affects him and I really want to get better for both of us.
Thank you Jackson,well actually i’m just recovering from depression,just finished treatment and this is still lingering so i’m not sure if it’s anything to do with it…thank you

LoveKnots answers:

Course, he’s bound to find other women attractive, doesnt mean he is going to act on it. Hun i used to be exactly like you, i hated my boyfriend drooling over celebs on telly as he would quite openly tell me how fit they were etc. But the thing you have to remember is…he is with you and no-one else. Surely you as a person often see a guy in the street and think hmmm he’s cute, its just our natural instinct. Doesnt mean you are cheating or him for that matter. I have started dealing with it a lot better now, its ruined 2 of my past relationships and im not going to let it ruin this one. You have to beleive that your the one for him, no-one else. He is with you because he loves you! It hard to move pass this, it took me ages but now i am dealing with it better. Sometimes it does still niggle at me, but i let it pass as it will only get my upset and cause arguements

Its just one of them things you have to put to the back of your mind hun, i hope this has helped

Good Luck

William asks…

What is the poem ‘Love’ by Pablo Neruda about?

What’s wrong with you, with us, what’s happening to us? Ah our love is a harsh cord that binds us
wounding us and if we want to leave our wound, to separate, it makes a new knot for us and condemns us
to drain our blood and burn together. What’s wrong with you? I look at you and I find nothing in you but two eyes like all eyes, a mouth lost
among a thousand mouths that I have kissed, more beautiful, a body just like those that have slipped
beneath my body without leaving any memory. And how empty you went through the world like a wheat-colored jar without air, without sound, without
substance! I vainly sought in you depth for my arms that dig, without cease, beneath the earth: beneath
your skin, beneath your eyes, nothing, beneath your double breast scarcely raised a current of crystalline
order that does not know why it flows singing. Why, why, why, my love, why?

LoveKnots answers:

It uses romantic narrative as metaphor, and uses the speaker to mean the poet who expresses truth, like a seer or prophet. The theme criticizes the world, a thousand mouths he kisses, for being shallow and empty as the reason why the poet can’t find truth, love or inspiration, and his criticisms are actually at himsel

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