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Love Knot Meaning

Ruth asks…

IN LOVE with a married man?

I am deeply in love with a married man, even he says he likes me but he does not want to tie a knot with me / want to commit with me he directly says that he just want to spend time with me, but i am confused i don’t what to do………….. actually we use to stay near his office for this reason i have shifted my house its already 3 months, when i shifted he called twice to know my home address i did not respond him properly……….. from then he stopped calling me …………. i don’t know wheather he is missing me or not but i am ………. what shld i do …….. shld i call him……….? or shld i discontinue with this relationship?

LoveKnots answers:

Let it go. You were probably just the clean up woman. Meaning he probably was using you to get things he wasn’t getting from his wife. Ex: Communication,etc

Maria asks…

Why is my kitten so mean?

I mean he loves me and follows me around and stuff but whenever I pet him he likes to try and bite me and what not.. It isn’t hard and he always will lick the spot he bit after he bit me. How can I get him to be more affectionate?
I dont intentionally play with him using my hands. As soon as he bites I will stop petting him and let him know that it was not alright for him to do that.

LoveKnots answers:

He’s just playing, but you need to quit using your bare hands to play with him. He won’t learn that hands are NOT for biting, unless you TEACH him.

Get a pair of old HEAVY ( athletic ) socks, and tie them into knots. Keep them next to you when you sit down, so that when the kitten wants to play, he can play with the SOCKS, instead of your hands. Play tug-of-war GENTLY, with the kitten and the SOCK, and when he gets really “into” it, toss the sock on the floor. He’ll jump down to go get the sock…..You may be able to get him to bring it back……or he may just “wrestle around” with it. At any rate, he’s not biting your hands!!

As he gets older, he’ll calm down some, and become more affectionate…….Right now, he’s more interested in playing!!

Hope this helps……..Those socks can be great “hand savers”……so, keep them handy!
Good luck.

Helen asks…

does this mean that i am in love?

i have this guy friend that i like but every time that i am around him my stomach knots up and i am not sure what to do

please offer suggestions of what this could be a sign of or what to do about it

i just would like to know because i think that it is just a little weird

please no sarcasm
also i am always thinking about him

LoveKnots answers:

Ummm.
I dnt think its exactly love…
Then again it could be…
Only u kno that
but u probably REALLY REALLY like him
and thats how it is sometimes…
Yea it’s weird,
but its a nice feeling

Laura asks…

What does this symbol mean?

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LoveKnots answers:

Looks like a Celtic knot.
There are many Celtic symbol guides out there, however often many of the purported meanings of the symbols are usually made up. While many of the ancient designs certainly had some spiritually significant meaning, these have largely been lost to the ages and can only be guessed at. There are no known authentic knotwork designs meaning love or loyalty or sisterhood or any of the other common meanings ascribed to the designs.

For more information go here:
http://symboldictionary.net/?p=281

James asks…

This is a quote from a story I read in class the other day.. Can someone explain what it means?

“There is within me a knot of cruelty borne by the stram of lvoe. Much as blood sometimes bears the seed of our destruction, and at time, I was mean to Doodle.”

Doodle is the narrator’s brother, so the person saying this quote is Doodle’s older brother. Can someone please explain to me the meaning behind this quote.

LoveKnots answers:

It means that doodles brother (narrator) was being cruel because he loves his brother, and tht destorying something will bring something newer and more beauitiful then the something tht was there before ( I ACTUALLY READ THT BOOK TOO) tHE OTHER DAY IN CLASS) whoops casp was on

Donald asks…

Teach me English meaning!?

Hi , I have a question of English poem about Rumi who was Sufi poet.

Here is poem:
My worst habit is I get so tired of Winter, I become a torture to those I am with
If you, the friend, are not here, nothing grows
I lack clarity, my words tangle and knot up
How to cure bad water? Send it back to the river!
How to cure bad habits? Send me back to you (the friend)
When water gets caught in habitual whirlpools dig a way through the bottom
To the Ocean
There is a secret medicine given only to those who hurt so hard they cannot hope
Pale sunlight, pale the wall
Love moves away, the light changes
I need more grace than I thought.

by Coleman Barks

I can’t understand why Rumi said Pale sunlight, pale the wall ?

I asked English teacher of Japanese about this poem.
But he could not understand it too .
I think , because we think about Pale sunlight, pale the wall are imperative sentences.
Is this same meaning;the sunlight paled and the wall paled?

So can I say this? :
There is a secret medicine given only to those who hurt so hard they cannot hope.
However, the sunlight still paled and the wall still paled for me.
Love moves away, the light changes form me.
I need more grace than I thought.

LoveKnots answers:

Pale the wall just means the wall is pale.

Like this:

blue the wall means the wall is blue

pale sunlight on a pale wall

very little sunlight on a barely sunlit wall.

Mary asks…

What dose this dream mean?

In this dream I has access to a couples bedroom. By access I mean all doors and areas were open to me to enter in and out. Upon entry I undisturbed saw the couple in bed. The man sitting on the bed has a bear belly and no shirt on. He was however covered from the wait up. In bed he seemed to be checking or texting a message on his black berry. The woman in the bed, presumably his wife was faced down in the bed. Her face was pressed down in the pillow. Her left hand was lifelessly hanging of the bed. Her whole back was exposed and her skin tone was a yellowish ill color. Her hair was knotted, tangled and dirty. Passing the couple unfazed I entered their bathroom, pulled the bathroom window out and proceeded to talk to someone outside. Simultaneously while talking to the person through the window I turned around and saw that the man was trying to look at me through the little bathroom door window and trying with exceeding force to open the door. I smiled as I realized that he could not see me but I could see him. Turning back to talk to the person outside the bathroom window I told the person that I was going to come and open the door for them. In fulfillment I proceeded out of the bathroom. In stepping out of the bathroom I say the man standing in the corner of the bathroom in darkness just standing there staring at me. Unfazed I just walked out of the room.

Questions:
-Why would I have all access to someones bedroom?
-Why was I unmoved by the presence of the couple?
-Why was faced down in the bed? Why was her face was pressed down in the pillow? Why was her left hand was lifelessly hanging of the bed? why was her whole back was exposed and her skin tone was a yellowish ill color? Why was her hair was knotted, tangled and dirty?
-Why did the door automatically lock to the man who was trying to enter? How come he was automatically denied access to his own bathroom and b whom?
-Why was I able to see him however he was not able to see me?
-Why did the door automatically open to me when I was ready to leave the bathroom?
-Why was the man unable to get to me even when the door was open?
-Why was the man standing in the corner, in the dark helplessly watching me?
-Why

LoveKnots answers:

I didn’t read it but I suggest just be a good person for everyone with love.

I like to just add because maybe I got your attention:

To know if the fruits of this tree will be good you need to wait till you see/feel/takes/smell everything. A tree takes time to grow.

If a tree gets cut it naturally will heal. If the tree gets cut down it must be fixed to live.

If you plan to get be a wife one day her duties is similar to training a dog you will get what you put in.

When Dealing with an eel you must make it feel love and make sure it is comfortable.

If you take care of an eel it only wants you

If the eel environment is the best, the eel is home

Give the eel the good stuff at the right time, the eel will want more

Love the eel and the eel will love you back.

On another note before you invest into anything make sure you have done all your homework/research because that affects are recorded. Now it is better you don’t invest, but you would miss out of some great luxuries. Now if you don’t invest make sure your partners know about it.

Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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Lizzie asks…

He loves me but I don’t know what love is and I have low self-esteem?

He says that he loves me for who I am. Instead of making me excited, him saying that scares me. I feel suffocated when he says that, like I can’t improve myself. I tell him I hate myself and he says that’s okay. I tell him I can’t love him because I hate myself and he says that we have time, that he’s patient. The worst is when he shrugs and says that he’s alright with my behaviour when I’m not even alright with my behaviour. I feel trapped.

When he tells me he can give me time alone if I need that, I feel I need him even more. I even tried to impose a break from him for myself but after a short while I went running straight back to him.

I know that he can’t change me, I know that I can only change myself, but I’m afraid I’ve already become too dependent on him and I’m afraid that I’ve been using him to just boost my self-esteem and now that he wants something more, I can’t commit.

This relationship used to be fun but now I feel frustrated and I don’t know why. It’s starting to provoke the worst in me. I get defensive and argumentative over the tiniest things. Instead of loving feelings, I feel an anxious knot in my stomach when I think about this relationship.

I know it’s really unhealthy. But I don’t know what to do. Can anyone help me? Does it sound like I’m staying in this relationship just to avoid being alone? Can anyone relate?

LoveKnots answers:

Seems like ur not afraid of committing but rather afraid of changing into a more independent stronger woman. Being independent could mean u have no one to give u affection and having to lift yourself up without anyone’s help whenever you go through something hard. Believe in yourself and youll find the courage in you to become strong. Kinda like if someone humiliates your close family. The anger you release shows the strength and courage in yourself. Learn to be independent and you’ll have your choice in guys to be with. Guys help you in times of need, but you wont need them if u become strong. Thats even if ur in need, which is reduced when ur not dependent on a guy anymore, good luck

Joseph asks…

What do you think this poem is about/means?

Love Song
Carol Muske-Dukes
Love comes hungry to anyone’s hand.
I found the newborn sparrow next to
the tumbled nest on the grass. Bravely

opening its beak. Cats circled, squirrels.
I tried to set the nest right but the wild
birds had fled. The knot of pin feathers

sat in my hand and spoke. Just because
I’ve raised it by touch, doesn’t mean it
follows. All day it pecks at the tin image of

a faceless bird. It refuses to fly,
though I’ve opened the door. What
sends us to each other? He and I

had a blue landscape, a village street,
some poems, bread on a plate. Love
was a camera in a doorway, love was

a script, a tin bird. Love was faceless,
even when we’d memorized each other’s
lines. Love was hungry, love was faceless,

the sparrow sings, famished, in my hand.

LoveKnots answers:

The poet is reflecting on love and its idiosyncrasies. She is lost in thought and memory. She remembers the love she once had and compares it to her rescue of a baby sparrow. Love is hungry and eagerly will take what ever it can to ease its hunger. There is a need to love and be loved just as one has a need to eat. Love is faceless just as the sparrow pecks at its faceless reflection on a tin.

The sparrow, now fully grown is still lost. It is earth bound and trapped by its own reflection which it attacks. The tin bird it attacks is its obsession. The sparrow probably does not know it is even a bird. The reflection is described as faceless. Is the sparrow held earth bound by this reflected image? Is it because it was raised by touch it stays with the poet? Were they meant to find each other and what sent each to the other? I thinks she believes in is because both were hungry for nurture.

The poet’s thoughts also dwell on her lost love. She refers to this love in the past tense. He is no longer with her and she mourns the loss of this faceless love which has still left her hungry. The sparrow sings in hunger and her “Love Song” is the same. She hungrily remembers the life she had when her lover was alive. This poem is her love song to him.

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